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Parent Resources at Trevor

To help facilitate a meaningful educational partnership, Trevor regularly offers resources and programming for the parent community. From articles and websites, to DEI and Health & Wellness programming, to a various speaker series, the opportunities to connect with parent peers and partner with Trevor are plentiful. Check this page often for updates!

2026-2027 Events

List of 9 items.

  • Parenting from the Head of School's Office: An Article by Dan Feigin

    Trevor's Head of School, Dan Feigin, shared his perspective of experiencing his daughter, Dylan '26, grow from adolescent to young adult, as her parent, and as her Head of School. 
     
    "For years, people have told me how lucky my daughter was to have her father at school every day. I think the luck was all mine. I got to see moments most parents never see: a passing wave in the hallway, a conversation with friends before class, a glimpse of the person she was becoming when she didn’t know I was watching. Those moments accumulated quietly but prolifically. They were gifts I gladly accepted, but to badly paraphrase Spider-Man, with great gifts comes great responsibility." 

    Click here to read Dan Feigin's article.
  • School Readiness: Executive Function Needed to “Do School” (9.29.26)

    Parenting Perspectives:
    A Series Featuring Leading Voices & Timely Ideas
     
    Our series includes a collection of webinars hosted by ISACS and NYSAIS, as well as in-person events hosted by Trevor, all in support of our critical roles as parents.
     
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    School Readiness: Executive Function Needed to “Do School”
    Sarah Ward, M.S., CCC/SLP, Executive Function Expert
     
    Tuesday, September 29, 2026
    via Zoom
    7:30–8:30 pm
    Click here for full event information.

    As school begins, we focus on giving students the right tools—planners, folders, schedules, and routines—to set them up for success. What if these tools aren’t the starting point? What if they depend on executive function skills that many students are still developing? We will shift from tools to the underlying skills students need to successfully “do school.” Gain a deeper understanding of executive function skills—such as working memory, time awareness, task initiation, and organization—and why challenges in these areas can make even the best systems fall apart. Explore how everyday school demands—getting out the door with materials, recording and completing homework, managing time across the day, and following through independently—require more than reminders and checklists. Learn strategies to help start the school year strong. 
     
    VIEW RECORDINGS & DOWNLOAD RESOURCE MATERIALS
    Scroll to the bottom of the Lobby, and click on the “Watch recording” button next to the webinar of choosing. Click on the webinar name to open the pop-up with the description, and download any resource materials provided by the presenter, if available.

    Independent School Association of the Central States (ISACS) and NYSAIS is proud to offer member schools access to this online educational series for independent school parents and caregivers. The series is a year-long program offering six exceptional webinars designed for independent school parents and caregivers at all stages of their children's growth. 
     
    How to Register
    Anyone accessing the live webinar or recording must register on Zoom.
    • Click on the Register
    • Authenticate via email with a one-time passcode
    • Complete the Zoom Registration form
    • Click on the “Add to Calendar” button
    Reminders
    Zoom will send reminder emails to registered participants 1 week, 1 day, and 1 hour before a webinar.
     
    Joining the Live Webinar
    Click on the unique link from Zoom 5–10 minutes prior to the start time.
     
    Future Webinars
    This is a ISACS/NYSAIS webpage, which you can return to at any point, with all the pertinent details of this webinar and future webinars.
  • Middle School Lunch & Learn Session for Lower School Families (11.30.26)

    On Monday, November 30th at 12:00 pm Rebecca Damas is hosting a virtual information session about the Middle School program. The presentation will cover academics, electives, advisory, athletics, clubs, the schedule, technology, the East Campus, and more. The session will last approximately 45 minutes, including time for questions. Here is Google Meet information for joining the session:

    Video call link: https://meet.google.com/yko-vvbj-bcq
    Or dial: ‪(US) +1 346-314-0417‬ PIN: ‪772 997 401‬#
    More phone numbers: https://tel.meet/yko-vvbj-bcq?pin=5862193653800
     
    The session will be recorded, and slides from the program will also be shared following the presentation. If you have particular topics that you would like me to address, please do not hesitate to reach out to Ms. Damas (rdamas@trevor.org) between now and then.
  • The Power of Beliefs: How Strengthening Seven Core Beliefs Predicts Greater Success & A Better Life (12.1.26)

    Parenting Perspectives:
    A Series Featuring Leading Voices & Timely Ideas
     
    Our series includes a collection of webinars hosted by ISACS and NYSAIS, as well as in-person events hosted by Trevor, all in support of our critical roles as parents.
     
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    The Power of Beliefs: How Strengthening Seven Core Beliefs Predicts Greater Success & A Better Life
    Shawn Achor, Author
    Tuesday, December 1st via Zoom

    A great predictor of future educational performance is the beliefs a student holds about the world. Beliefs change the math about what is possible and probable, whether it’s making a team or getting accepted to a great school or thriving with ADHD. By changing the math, beliefs change our path. Parents can actively shape those beliefs in ways that measurably increase student resilience, happiness, and long-term success, and Achor will reveal the seven core beliefs that predict educational outcomes and well-being. Gain practical tools to help kids strengthen the most predictive core beliefs like “I am not alone,” “My behavior matters,” “I have something to give” and “I matter” and leave with strategies that can rewire how their children see themselves and their world. Learn how to improve your child’s emotional immune system, especially in the midst of social media and technology. Beliefs about ourselves, our children, our work and our world don’t just reflect reality. Beliefs bend our future reality. Same world. Different beliefs. Different outcomes.
     
    • Content is useful to all parents & caregivers.
    • The recording of this webinar will be available until 3/1/27.
     
    VIEW RECORDINGS & DOWNLOAD RESOURCE MATERIALS
    Scroll to the bottom of the Lobby, and click on the “Watch recording” button next to the webinar of choosing. Click on the webinar name to open the pop-up with the description, and download any resource materials provided by the presenter, if available.

    Independent School Association of the Central States (ISACS) and NYSAIS is proud to offer member schools access to this online educational series for independent school parents and caregivers. The series is a year-long program offering six exceptional webinars designed for independent school parents and caregivers at all stages of their children's growth. 
     
    How to Register
    Anyone accessing the live webinar or recording must register on Zoom.
    • Click on the Register
    • Authenticate via email with a one-time passcode
    • Complete the Zoom Registration form
    • Click on the “Add to Calendar” button
    Reminders
    Zoom will send reminder emails to registered participants 1 week, 1 day, and 1 hour before a webinar.
     
    Joining the Live Webinar
    Click on the unique link from Zoom 5–10 minutes prior to the start time.
     
    Future Webinars
    This is a ISACS/NYSAIS webpage, which you can return to at any point, with all the pertinent details of this webinar and future webinars.
  • Cultivating Belonging: What Families Can Do to Help Children Thrive (12.1.26)

    Cultivating Belonging: What Families Can Do to Help Children Thrive
    Virtual Parent Workshop
    Tuesday, December 1st
    6:00–7:15 pm
    Google Meet
    https://meet.google.com/ffp-gfuy-biv
    Or dial: ‪(US) +1 541-600-2527‬
    PIN: ‪726 946 789‬#

    RSVP by November, 30th
    Click here to RSVP

    Each year, the Trevor community explores a different topic related to human identity and connection. The DEI Signature Program provides a structured and intentional way for our community to explore and engage with these topics. For 2026–27, our Signature Program is Belonging. Through a variety of experiences, we seek to create space for education, reflection, connection, and celebration.
     
    We invite the Trevor parent and guardian community to virtually join John Krownapple on Tuesday, December 1st at 6:00 pm for Cultivating Belonging: What Families Can Do to Help Children Thrive.  
     
    Drawing on research from psychology, education, and the science of belonging, this interactive session will explore what belonging really means, why it matters for children's well-being and development, and how honoring dignity creates the conditions for belonging. Parents and caregivers will leave with practical strategies to affirm their children's inherent worth, strengthen relationships, navigate moments of conflict, exclusion, or uncertainty, and partner with the school to create environments where every child can thrive.
  • The Family Guide to Screen/Life Balance: What to Do About Tech & Kids (1.13.27)

    Parenting Perspectives:
    A Series Featuring Leading Voices & Timely Ideas
     
    Our series includes a collection of webinars hosted by ISACS and NYSAIS, as well as in-person events hosted by Trevor, all in support of our critical roles as parents.
     
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    The Family Guide to Screen/Life Balance: What to Do About Tech & Kids
    Catherine Price, Author, Founder of Screen/Life Balance
    Wed, Jan 13, 2027
    7:30 PM - 8:30 PM 
    Click here for full event information.

    For many parents and educators, fights over screen time seem like an inevitable part of raising kids. But what if it didn’t have to be this way? What if it were possible to transform these conflicts into conversations, and work on better screen habits with our children and students, instead of engaging in endless battles against them? Drawing from a decade’s worth of work—as well as her bestselling books How to Break Up With Your Phone, The Power of Fun, and The Amazing Generation (co-authored with Jonathan Haidt)—Price will reveal why it’s essential to rethink our approach to kids and screens, and will offer a fresh and empowering perspective on how we can talk with our kids instead of at them. She’ll discuss strategies for how to inspire kids to choose to delay smartphones and social media, rethink their relationships with devices, create better boundaries with technology, and prioritize real-life friendships, skills, and experiences. She’ll also address newer challenges, including AI and chatbots, and offer ways to help our children—and ourselves—create healthier relationships with technology and build lives full of real friendship, freedom, and fun.
     
    • Content is particularly useful to those with children under 13.
    • The recording of this webinar will be available until 6/30/27.
     
    VIEW RECORDINGS & DOWNLOAD RESOURCE MATERIALS
    Scroll to the bottom of the Lobby, and click on the “Watch recording” button next to the webinar of choosing. Click on the webinar name to open the pop-up with the description, and download any resource materials provided by the presenter, if available.

    Independent School Association of the Central States (ISACS) and NYSAIS is proud to offer member schools access to this online educational series for independent school parents and caregivers. The series is a year-long program offering six exceptional webinars designed for independent school parents and caregivers at all stages of their children's growth. 
     
    How to Register
    Anyone accessing the live webinar or recording must register on Zoom.
    • Click on the Register
    • Authenticate via email with a one-time passcode
    • Complete the Zoom Registration form
    • Click on the “Add to Calendar” button
    Reminders
    Zoom will send reminder emails to registered participants 1 week, 1 day, and 1 hour before a webinar.
     
    Joining the Live Webinar
    Click on the unique link from Zoom 5–10 minutes prior to the start time.
     
    Future Webinars
    This is a ISACS/NYSAIS webpage, which you can return to at any point, with all the pertinent details of this webinar and future webinars.
  • Protecting Your Child in the Age of Deepfakes (2.9.27)

    Parenting Perspectives:
    A Series Featuring Leading Voices & Timely Ideas
     
    Our series includes a collection of webinars hosted by ISACS and NYSAIS, as well as in-person events hosted by Trevor, all in support of our critical roles as parents.
     
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    Protecting Your Child in the Age of Deepfakes
    Evan Harris, Expert on AI Risks in Schools
    Tuesday, February 9th via Zoom

    Deepfake technology is no longer a future concern. Students are encountering AI-generated scams, manipulated media, and abuse through the apps, games, and platforms they use every day. Most parents know the term but aren’t sure what it means for their family or what to do about it. Walk through the deepfake landscape in plain language: what these tools can do, where children are most exposed, and what the new federal laws mean for families. Learn how to recognize warning signs that a child may be targeted, how to have age-appropriate conversations about online manipulation, and what steps to take if an incident occurs. Leave with a framework for ongoing conversations with your children, a clear response plan, and the confidence that comes from understanding what they’re dealing with. The single most protective thing a parent can do is make sure their child knows they can come to them without fear of judgment.
    • Content is particularly useful to those with children grades 4–12.
    • The recording of this webinar will be available until 6/30/27.
    VIEW RECORDINGS & DOWNLOAD RESOURCE MATERIALS
    Scroll to the bottom of the Lobby, and click on the “Watch recording” button next to the webinar of choosing. Click on the webinar name to open the pop-up with the description, and download any resource materials provided by the presenter, if available.

    Independent School Association of the Central States (ISACS) and NYSAIS is proud to offer member schools access to this online educational series for independent school parents and caregivers. The series is a year-long program offering six exceptional webinars designed for independent school parents and caregivers at all stages of their children's growth. 
     
    How to Register
    Anyone accessing the live webinar or recording must register on Zoom.
    • Click on the Register
    • Authenticate via email with a one-time passcode
    • Complete the Zoom Registration form
    • Click on the “Add to Calendar” button
    Reminders
    Zoom will send reminder emails to registered participants 1 week, 1 day, and 1 hour before a webinar.
     
    Joining the Live Webinar
    Click on the unique link from Zoom 5–10 minutes prior to the start time.
     
    Future Webinars
    This is a ISACS/NYSAIS webpage, which you can return to at any point, with all the pertinent details of this webinar and future webinars.
  • How Temperament Shapes Who We Become: Why Some Children Need More than Others to Flourish (4.8.27)

    Parenting Perspectives:
    A Series Featuring Leading Voices & Timely Ideas
     
    Our series includes a collection of webinars hosted by ISACS and NYSAIS, as well as in-person events hosted by Trevor, all in support of our critical roles as parents.
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    How Temperament Shapes Who We Become: Why Some Children Need More than Others to Flourish
    Aliza Pressman, Developmental Psychologist, Author, Podcaster
    Thursday, April 8, 2027
    via zoom
    7:30-8:30 pm
    Click here for full event information.

    What if the traits that make a child more sensitive to stress are the very same traits that allow them to flourish most powerfully in the right environment? Every child is born with a nervous system uniquely wired to experience the world. Some children feel everything deeply, process intensely, and require specific conditions to thrive. Others are more adaptable, flexible, seemingly unfazed. And most fall somewhere in between. Yet, too often, we parent toward an imagined “average child”—one that doesn’t exist. Drawing on research and science around temperament, Pressman offers a clarifying lens: the goal is not to toughen children up or shield them from all stress—but to understand which stress builds resilience, which requires support, and which demands protection. This session challenges two common but costly parenting extremes—dismissing children’s experiences on one end and over-accommodating on the other. Gain a practical, science-backed approach to raising children who feel seen, understood, and capable. Because when children are known for who they truly are, they stop trying to be someone else and start becoming, fully and confidently, themselves.
     
    • Content is useful to all parents & caregivers.
    • The recording of this webinar will be available until 6/30/27.
    VIEW RECORDINGS & DOWNLOAD RESOURCE MATERIALS
    Scroll to the bottom of the Lobby, and click on the “Watch recording” button next to the webinar of choosing. Click on the webinar name to open the pop-up with the description, and download any resource materials provided by the presenter, if available.

    Independent School Association of the Central States (ISACS) and NYSAIS is proud to offer member schools access to this online educational series for independent school parents and caregivers. The series is a year-long program offering six exceptional webinars designed for independent school parents and caregivers at all stages of their children's growth. 
     
    How to Register
    Anyone accessing the live webinar or recording must register on Zoom.
    • Click on the Register
    • Authenticate via email with a one-time passcode
    • Complete the Zoom Registration form
    • Click on the “Add to Calendar” button
    Reminders
    Zoom will send reminder emails to registered participants 1 week, 1 day, and 1 hour before a webinar.
     
    Joining the Live Webinar
    Click on the unique link from Zoom 5–10 minutes prior to the start time.
     
    Future Webinars
    This is a ISACS/NYSAIS webpage, which you can return to at any point, with all the pertinent details of this webinar and future webinars.
  • The Power of One (5.4.27)

    Parenting Perspectives:
    A Series Featuring Leading Voices & Timely Ideas

    Our series includes a collection of webinars hosted by ISACS and NYSAIS, as well as in-person events hosted by Trevor, all in support of our critical roles as parents.

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    The Power of One
    John O'Leary, Author, Podcaster
    Tuesday, May 4th, 2027
    via zoom
    7:30-8:30 pm
    Click here for full event information.

    Playing with fire and gasoline at nine years old, O’Leary created a massive explosion in his garage and was burned on 100% of his body. Given less than a 1% chance of survival, O’Leary is proof of the power of the human spirit. His unlikely recovery meant a journey of pain and loss that could have easily been insurmountable. Far from simply enduring tragedy, he became a luminous example of thriving through adversity. And surprisingly, this “survivor” story isn’t focused on O’Leary—rather, it is a celebration of heroes who intimately served him and his family. Every individual involved in this fire teaches us this truth: one person can make a profound difference in the lives of others. Using emotional storytelling and unexpected humor to highlight the powerful role parents and caregivers play in shaping resilience, perspective, and hope in their children; he reminds us of the impact of our daily attitudes, the power of gratitude, and what it looks like to model courage and compassion—reinforcing that even small, intentional moments of connection can leave a lasting imprint on the lives of our kids. Reawaken a sense of purpose—both in parenting and beyond—that what we do everyday matters.
     
    • Content is useful to all parents & caregivers.
    • The recording of this webinar will be available until 6/30/27.

    VIEW RECORDINGS & DOWNLOAD RESOURCE MATERIALS
    Scroll to the bottom of the Lobby, and click on the “Watch recording” button next to the webinar of choosing. Click on the webinar name to open the pop-up with the description, and download any resource materials provided by the presenter, if available.

    Independent School Association of the Central States (ISACS) and NYSAIS is proud to offer member schools access to this online educational series for independent school parents and caregivers. The series is a year-long program offering six exceptional webinars designed for independent school parents and caregivers at all stages of their children's growth. 
     
    How to Register
    Anyone accessing the live webinar or recording must register on Zoom.
    • Click on the Register
    • Authenticate via email with a one-time passcode
    • Complete the Zoom Registration form
    • Click on the “Add to Calendar” button
    Reminders
    Zoom will send reminder emails to registered participants 1 week, 1 day, and 1 hour before a webinar.
     
    Joining the Live Webinar
    Click on the unique link from Zoom 5–10 minutes prior to the start time.
     
    Future Webinars
    This is a ISACS/NYSAIS webpage, which you can return to at any point, with all the pertinent details of this webinar and future webinars.

2025-2026 Events

List of 11 items.

  • Spring 2026 Community Meeting (5.27.26)

    Join Head of School, Dan Feigin '84, P'26 and Trevor community members presenting on school-wide program updates to wrap up 2025–26 and look ahead to 2026-27. 

    Click here for full details.
  • Conscious Parenting: Raising Resilient, Self-aware & Connected Children, Dr. Shefali Tsabary, Clinical Psychologist & Author (5.6.26)

    The Health & Wellness Department would like to remind the Trevor community of their free access to the ISACS Parent Series, featuring workshops led by nationally recognized psychologists and child development experts. The lineup includes some of the most highly regarded voices in education, psychology, and parenting today.
     
    You can register for access to the whole series and the recordings here. Session descriptions and speakers are below and on the program website.
  • Happier Parenting: Evidence-based Strategies for Improving Parent Happiness, Laurie Santos, Yale University (4.15.26)

    The Health & Wellness Department would like to remind the Trevor community of their free access to the ISACS Parent Series, featuring workshops led by nationally recognized psychologists and child development experts. The lineup includes some of the most highly regarded voices in education, psychology, and parenting today.
     
    You can register for access to the whole series and the recordings here. Session descriptions and speakers are below and on the program website.
  • Understanding Anxiety in Children & Teens: What Parents Need to Know (4.8.26)

    Dr. Aleta Angelosante, of NYU Child Study Center will lead an engaging, evidence-based workshop on understanding and supporting youth with anxiety. You can learn more about Dr. Angelosante here. 
  • 10 to 25: The Science of Motivating Young People, David Yeager, University of Texas at Austin, Psychologist & Author (2.10.26)

    The Health & Wellness Department would like to remind the Trevor community of their free access to the ISACS Parent Series, featuring workshops led by nationally recognized psychologists and child development experts. The lineup includes some of the most highly regarded voices in education, psychology, and parenting today.
     
    You can register for access to the whole series and the recordings here. Session descriptions and speakers are below and on the program website.
  • In Conversation: Barbara Sommer Feigin and Nicolle Wallace (1.27.26)

    In honor of Holocaust Remembrance Day, join author and Holocaust survivor, Barbara Sommer Feigin, and moderator Nicolle Wallace, for a discussion of Barbara's best selling memoir, My American Dream: A Journey from Fascism to Freedom. Click here for more information.
  • Experience Trevor (1.22.26)

    Plug in for our 11th Annual Experience Trevor, a "back-to-school night" for parents, grandparents, and the alumni community. Enjoy an evening of curricular exploration with the esteemed Trevor faculty and a guest alumnus professor. Click here for course descriptions.
  • Elevating Discipline with the Brain in Mind, Tina Payne Bryson, Author, Speaker & Pediatric Psychotherapist (1.13.26)

    The Health & Wellness Department would like to remind the Trevor community of their free access to the ISACS Parent Series, featuring workshops led by nationally recognized psychologists and child development experts. The lineup includes some of the most highly regarded voices in education, psychology, and parenting today.
     
    You can register for access to the whole series and the recordings here. Session descriptions and speakers are below and on the program website.
  • Helping Your Child Thrive at School...From Home (12.2.25)

    As part of our 2025-26 DEI Signature Program, we invite Parents & Guardians to join us for Helping Your Child Thrive at School…From Home. Dr. Yamalis Diaz, of NYU Child Study Center will lead an engaging workshop focused on understanding the various ways children learn. Discover how to identify and build on your child’s learning strengths, explore practical strategies to support learning at home, and create a positive, encouraging home environment. Learn more about Dr. Diaz here. 

    The 2025-26 DEI Signature Program is Diversabilities. As a community, we are celebrating the many different ways people live, learn, and physically engage with the world. Rather than framing differences through a lens of limitation, this program shifts the narrative to focus on the perspectives, talents, and strengths that emerge from a wide range of abilities. 
  • Get to Know Trevor's Middle School (12.1.25)

    Want to learn more about what’s in store for students at Trevor’s Middle School and why the East Campus is such a dynamic place? Join Rebecca Damas, Director of Middle School, for important information on the transition from Lower School to Middle School. You will learn what to expect academically and about the numerous opportunities to participate in athletics, clubs, music, and arts. Click here to see the slides from the presentation.
  • How the Great Rewiring of Childhood Impacted Everything + What We Can Do About It, Jonathan Haidt, Author & Social Psychologist (10.28.25)

    NYSAIS (New York State Association of Independent Schools) launched its inaugural Parent Series, featuring six workshops led by nationally recognized psychologists and child development experts. As a member school, Trevor is offering access to the full series for our parent community—you can join the live webinars throughout the year and also view recordings at their convenience. Click here for more information.

List of 3 items.

  • Ambitious Academics.

  • Engaged Students.

  • Balanced Lives.

Lower School

Middle/Upper School